Trauma of Money: A Taste of Focusing Links
A demonstration of Inner Relationship Focusing by my teacher, Ann Weiser Cornell https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yTl2atf8F3o
TOM paired exercise: https://shula.ca/TOM-exercise
TOM Focusing presentation notes: https://shula.ca/TOM-Focusing-notes-2025
Magic formula: https://shula.ca/magic-formula
IRF audio guide: https://shula.ca/irf-audio-guide
IRF self-guiding outline: https://shula.ca/irf-self-guiding
Gene Gendlin’s book on Focusing
English: https://store.focusing.org/products/focusing
Spanish: https://store.focusing.org/products/focusing-proceso-y-tecnica-enf-corporal
Home Alone: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tgMyaAK-aZw
About Carl Rogers https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carl_Rogers
About Eugene Gendlin https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eugene_Gendlin
Gene’s stance on giving therapy away:
https://focusing.org/articles/politics-giving-therapy-away-listening-and-focusing
What is Inner Relationship Focusing: https://focusingresources.com/inner-relationship-focusing/
Free Inner Relationship Focusing class: https://focusingresources.com/learning/get-bigger-than-whats-bugging-you/
The best book currently available on Inner Relationship Focusing is Untangling: How You Can Transform what’s Impossibly Stuck, by Barbara McGavin and Ann Weiser Cornell: https://shula.ca/untangling (affiliate link)
The Natural Pause
William Hernandez is a Focusing teacher in Ecuador who originally taught the idea of la pausa natural. https://thepause.lifegliders.com/publications.html
https://www.fecd.aroyi.org/blog/la-pausa-natural-1603490252
Janina Fisher’s parts diagram: Who is showing up? https://shula.ca/janina-fisher-parts
How to work with Shulamit
I’m available to work in a Focusing way with folks who are self-employed or own a business and…
- want support for exploring and offering care for their money trauma https://shula.ca/financial-therapy-for-women-entrepreneurs/, or
- want support for their mental and emotional well-being in the context of running a business: https://shula.ca/work-with-me/